Lubricant is one of the most underrated allies for comfort and pleasure, both alone and with a partner — yet it is often chosen haphazardly, without knowing the differences between the various types. Let's see how to navigate this.
Why use lubricant (even if you "don't need it")
A common but mistaken idea is that lubricant is only needed in cases of dryness or specific difficulties. In reality, it adds comfort and pleasure in any situation, reduces friction and the risk of minor irritations, and makes the experience smoother — literally. Using it is not a sign that "something is wrong": it's simply a way to improve comfort, full stop.
Water-based lubricant
The most versatile and most recommended for beginners.
- Compatible with all materials, including silicone sex toys
- Compatible with latex condoms
- Washes off easily with water, leaving no residue
- Tends to dry out a bit faster than other types, so you might need to reapply it during use
Ideal choice if: it's your first time with lubricant, or if you're using it with silicone sex toys (the only 100% safe combination).
Silicone-based lubricant
The longest-lasting, but with a few more considerations.
- Lasts longer than water-based, doesn't dry out quickly
- Great for use in water (shower, bath)
- Caution: not compatible with silicone sex toys — it can damage the material over time, making it sticky or deteriorated
- It is compatible with latex condoms
Ideal choice if: you are not using silicone sex toys together, and are looking for a longer-lasting formula.
Hybrid lubricant
A middle ground between the two.
Combines water and a small percentage of silicone, aiming to unite the safety and washability of water with increased durability. It's a good intermediate option, but the general rule still applies: always check the label if you plan to use it with silicone sex toys, as the percentage of silicone can vary from product to product.
A simple rule to remember
If you're unsure what to choose, the simplest and safest rule is this:
Silicone sex toy + lubricant = always choose water-based.
It's the only 100% guaranteed safe combination for the material, in every situation.
Other factors to consider
- Flavored or neutral: flavored lubricants are primarily designed for oral use — if that's not your case, a neutral one is generally the simplest choice and free of unnecessary added ingredients.
- Ingredients: if you have sensitive skin, look for formulas without glycerin or parabens, often labeled as "gentle" or "hypoallergenic".
- Quantity: you can always add more lubricant during use — it's better to start with a little and add more if needed, rather than the other way around.
In conclusion
There is no "absolute best" lubricant — there is the one most suitable for the specific situation. To start, and in most cases, a water-based lubricant remains the simplest, most versatile, and safest choice.
Do you have doubts about which product to choose for your specific situation? Write to us, we're happy to help you navigate.